《以父之名》的读者笔记
共 4 条公开笔记
1．履行好“园丁”的职责。 俗话说“三代不读书，一屋都是猪”，话虽糙，理却真。你不读书却要求孩子读书，你不立志却要孩子立志，你自身平庸却要求孩子卓越，你每天刷短视频乐得手舞足蹈，却要求孩子静下心来做功课，这样的土壤怎么能培养出有志向的孩子？与其焦虑孩子早醒还是晚醒，不如家长自己先觉醒，成为让孩子敬仰的人。 你成长，孩子就会成长；你怎么对待家庭关系，孩子就会怎么模仿。
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8***[email protected] 2026-05-11随着我的目标越来越多，梦想越来越丰富，我慢慢找到了自己的人生志向。正是童年时代多姿多彩的梦，让我对生活抱以热烈的幻想，始终不满足于现状。
8***[email protected] 2026-05-11每个人都是普通人，无论有多大成就，都逃脱不了生老病死、求而不得、爱恨别离的困扰，这是我们作为人的局限。但普通不同于平庸，平庸是在该立志的年纪选择随大溜，在该努力的时候选择躺平。 阿迪达斯有句广告语“Impossible is Nothing”（一切皆有可能）。当你选择躺平时，相当于放弃了人生的可能性。所以我总是教育孩子，要看见那些比自己强的人，并且努力成为那样的人。
8***[email protected] 2026-05-11